Cowboy Up..the 1st in the Spur Hill Series -out now on Kindle


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Once again that tight butt of his was distracting me, this time from within a pair of white jeans. Turning to face me as we opened the tall bi-fold doors, I familiarised myself once more with that gorgeous broad brimmed smile of his, those shiny white teeth, his wavy blond hair and those magnificent eyes, surrounded by tinges of yellow and green that I could swim in if afforded the chance.


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Visit for more details or just buy the book at Cowboy Up

Jessica Stanton


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Jessica Stanton was in search of peace, tranquility and country. Far away, above the starlit sky, beyond the ever distant moon, this fall evening signalled a warning: A tall, blonde cougar with too much time on her hands, can be her own worst enemy

Spur Hill “Cowboy Up” by Sasha Holden


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Every time he spoke in that sexy boyish tone, I was reaching for the ice, in spite of the outside chill. I could feel my inner thighs expanding against my strongest will. I couldn’t take it much more. I’d been too long without a lover, my body was aching and hungry with lust. His gorgeousness began exploding all around me.


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Congrats Frolicme…you are simply the sensual, erotic and visually splendid…I love the lingerie, your leading men, your orgasmic locations and the feel of your are a turn to individuals and couples alike the world over..thank you for being you..sashaholdenxx

Anyway I’ll leave you to get the Xmas table ready and see you in 2018!



Yes I know, it has only happened again! Another nomination has come our way. For the second time running my deliciously naughty and gorgeously beautiful erotic site has been nominated for this year’s 2018 XBIZ awards for Best Erotic Site of the Year to be announced in Los Angeles in January. Woohoo, I hear you all shout … go girl!

You too can help us on our way, it’s very simple you simply do so BY ADDING YOUR VOTE HERE for

The 16th annual XBIZ awards are highly recognised within the industry, which have been hosted since 2003 to recognise and honour the achievements of many different multi national businesses who work within the adult world. So for us as a small independent (I say small but boy are we growing fast!), the recognition is a real achievement.

These XBIZ awards have been compared to the mainstream Hollywood’s Golden Globes. The red-carpet event will be hosted again in Los Angeles on 18th January, all part of a programme of events that mark this annual occasion. The awards annually honour those individuals and companies that have been noted to have achieved within production, products, technology and retail within a highly competitive and large multimillion-dollar industry.

The size of the adult industry is a little clouded on the exact figures but is certainly deemed to be one of the largest industries, reports suggesting in excess of $97 billion, USA alone generating $10 – 12 billion a year. So for a startup independent female-founded business entering this hugely competitive world, I am delighted to be nominated again. In just a couple of years, Frolicme has rapidly become the “go to” site for so many women and couples looking for sex-positive creative and ethical erotica online. This nomination for Best Erotic Site just further signifies the strong global awareness the brand is continuing to achieve.

Yet again, another validation to entice even more potential members to take a peek and enjoy my erotic world of

Goodness, I’m going to be busy in January… quick get those flights sorted!


Cowboy Up The first novella in the Spur Hill Series, by Sasha Holden – on Amazon Kindle from December 24


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The leaves had just started to fall from Spur Hill’s tree-lined entrance, and there was a slightly cooler air to the afternoon. I felt a wisp of wind run through my dress, encircling my breasts. I had moved past the point of no return. Through the threshold point where an older woman chooses to restrain herself. I was hot, I was horny and in desperate need to have him.



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“Cowboy Up” The first novel in the Spur Hill Sasha Holden


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Welcome to the Spur Hill Series, in which the indomitable Jessica Stanton heads to the grand residence “Spur Hill” in America’s mid west for a lifestyle change.

“I am so much looking forward to this next chapter”, said Jessica Stanton. “This change has a good vibe written all over it. No more traffic lights, horns, late night ambulance sirens, last minute deadlines, shallow advertising executives and take out. I’m in search of peace, tranquility, and country”.
Unfortunately, as Jessica was soon to find out, nothing could be further from the truth. Far away, above the starlit sky, beyond the ever distant moon, this fall evening signalled a warning, “A tall blond cougar with too much time on her hands, can be her own worst enemy”.
Having left a failed marriage and a big city advertising job behind her for the grand “Spur Hill” residence in America’s midwest, the stunning Jessica Stanton soon finds she needs a helping hand (or two). Luckily for her there’s more than a few gorgeous young cowboys only too eager to assist.


Ever dreamed of escaping?

Jessica Stanton was in search of peace, tranquility and country. Unfortunately, as she was soon to find out, nothing could be further from the truth. Far away, above the starlit sky, beyond the ever distant moon, this fall evening signalled a warning: A tall, blonde cougar with too much time on her hands, can be her own worst enemy.

Jessica needs a helping hand

Her baby calves and horses were in danger, rising floodwaters and a drowning water pump imminent. Torrential rain was approaching, her property and livelihood threatened. Jessica Stanton was a damsel in distress. She needed a helping hand. But she didn’t count on having two, in “Cowboy Up.”


The Cowboy

Back in the city they call middle-aged women MILFs, or even cougars, handsome young cowboy Jamie thought to himself. Okay so this wasn’t his first time in the saddle, but from where he stood Jamie was sure hoping this wouldn’t be his last, in “Cowboy Up.”

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The Spur Hill Series

“The leaves had just started to fall from Spur Hill’s tree-lined entrance, and there was a slightly cooler air to the afternoon. I felt a wisp of wind run through my dress, encircling my breasts. I had moved past the point of no return. Through the threshold point where an older woman chooses to restrain herself. I was hot, I was horny and in desperate need to have him.”

Now on amazon kindle for Pre Order
Available December 24

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Fancy listening to something hot and steamy this weekend


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Make sure you have some time to yourself this weekend to listen to the audio version of my first novel “Sarah”. You might like to go for a long drive, have an afternoon nap, or some late night playtime.
It’s time well spent!

Sarah: Malcolm’s Prize: Sarah’s Story, Book 1

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Publisher’s Summary

So you are beautiful and sexy yet lonely. You just want love, affection. But when you can’t reach between the bedroom walls into the bed of your best friend’s husband, with whom you live, it becomes more than love and affection you lust after. What do you do when your thirst can’t be quenched? Set on the beautiful Australian coastline, maybe, just maybe, all your dreams will come true.

This stylishly written romantic tale of three lives intertwined escalates over time into one of not just passion, lust, and desire. Out of nowhere the unexpected arrives to release unparalleled scenes of erotica that sweep you away on a wave of ecstasy. Confused as you are, vulnerable and uncertain as you may be, you know deep down in places only you have visited that he has been looking. There’s only one problem. While he’s been noticing, your best friend has been protecting. She’s not about to give up everything she’s worked hard for. And why should she? She has him; you just want him. Or, should I say, need him.

Three’s a crowd. Or is it?

This series contains strong language and scorching sex scenes including masturbation, mutual masturbation, oral, anal, lesbian, threesome, slight BDSM, and straight sex.

©2015 Sasha Holden (P)2015 Sasha Holden

How important is sexual chemistry in a relationship? New Love Times by Sasha Holden


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How Important Is Sexual Chemistry In A Relationship?

Sometimes we try to ignore it, to suppress the emotions surrounding it, as Keira Knightly did in New York when Edward Norton touched her hand in the film “Collateral Beauty.” Though experts and lay people all agree, sexual compatibility is not only real, it forms the very fabric that binds our relationships together. Perhaps they are correct in their assumptions. On a recent trip to Madrid, I was drawn to a painting wherein the muse drew her last breath following the death of her true love, from whom she had been separated since youth. Having been locked for years in a loveless arranged marriage at the request of her father, she had forever hungered for the intimacy of her long lost lover. Dramatic perhaps, yet one only has to read through the threads of online forums today to ascertain that in the absence of sexual compatibility, relationships are often doomed from the start.

Suggested read: Why Sex Before Marriage Is Not Good, But A GREAT Idea

Let’s take a brief look at some online responses to a disillusioned forum member, found questioning the lack of intimacy within her current relationship. Hannah says,

“Sexual chemistry is vital. You need to feel the love and excitement of a relationship. Without sexual chemistry, you will feel unhappy with a lack of sex.”

Kathryn says,

“In my experience, sexual chemistry – if it’s not there – it will never be there. You will start to feel very guilty and resentful. For your sanity and his, it’s best to end a relationship without sexual chemistry.

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Jessica C says,

YES, sexual compatibilityy is very important. The thing is, it may help to balance and accept differences in other areas, and I think this is good as long as such differences don’t touch core values.

Nikki, in turn says,

Sexual compatibility is soooo important! I married a man that I did not have great chemistry with because he seemed like he was head over heels for me, and the lack of sexual attraction was one thing that killed our marriage and relationship.

Experts too, agree that sex and being sexually compatible, are two of the most essential ingredients required in maintaining a sustainable relationship. In fact, the lack of sexual compatibility, and sex for that matter, remain common reasons for relationship breakdowns today. They suggest that possessing sexual chemistry with your partner, feeling the desire, the hunger, and the excitement when you are intimate with them, helps to ensure your relationship shall go the distance.

For when that initial “loved up” phase we all go through in our relationship abates, we need to experience that sexual ccmpatibility, that sexual connection, to keep the flame alight. Most couples, over time, rarely have matching sex drives. The “he wants sex more than me” factor is a common issue raised during marriage counselling. Over time, menopause in women, lowering libido in men and aging, all bring their own sexual frustrations. During these turbulent times, the ever-present cracks in a sexless relationship tend to manifest themselves into a chasm that for many couples, is simply too big to cross. He or she has an affair or loses interest in the broader, everyday facets of the relationship. The inherent lack of a sexual bond between the couple can often lead to a slow and painful end to their relationship.

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Yet your search for a sexual compatibility need not always be a harrowing one. I was in an airport in Europe a month ago only to be touched on the shoulder by a stranger. Upon turning around, a tall, dark, and handsome man greeted me in a strong European accent with, “Excuse me,Ms Holden, your hair brush.”

Suggested read: More Than Friends: Are You Ready To Turn Your Friendship Into Something More? Find Out

Having passed through the security screen, I had left my hair brush on the carousel in search of my laptop and other items. I then felt it. The power of sexual compatibility. Shivers whisked their way through the small of my back, tightening my torso and sending bolts of lightning in and out of my inner thighs in waves of exhilaration. My heels buckled for a split second. I blushed the color of his gorgeous Italian shirt and stuttered the only two words I was capable of saying, “Thank youuu..….”. For the length of the ensuing plane trip and throughout the coming months, I intermittently found myself swimming in a sea of pins and needles, as the memory of his voice sent me tingling off to sleep. Powerful, strong, resilient, sensual, erotic, sexual and surging, in, then out of our very existence. Sexual intimacy is a beautiful thing. Don’t leave home without it…

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I lifted my legs up in bed
opening them slightly
listening to cars playing below
screaming through the lights
only to be slowed by another bus
then cab
taking their passengers home
or out to work
Jack was home from work
I had missed him
he turned in late
no doubt frustrated
lugging camera equipment
up and down stairs
on and off platforms
in and out of studios
waiting on his feet
as the girls flowed in and out
after countless hair and makeup sessions
innumerable bra and panty changes
before rearranging again
lights camera action sleep
beside me
the horny Sasha
I felt like a housewife without a husband
a cougar with nowhere to prowl
a Jenifer without a stepdad
Sarah without a Malcolm
Maria, two weeks after Antonio had left for fishing

My hand drifted
slowly caressing a small tuft of hair
on the landing platform above my slit
pushing lower at infrequent intervals
to play with my kindness
making a coffee now
attempting to write
poor choice
I write erotic fiction
hornier still I entered the bathroom
gathering up the red wax
my small pink vibrator and the matches

On the spare room bed
with the wax now hot
turning my ribbed pink friend on low
I angled her toward my tight little butt hole
to circle
to dance upon the surface
with her toe in the water
waiting to take a dip
below my newly found drip
Alas I hear stirring
He must be waking up
tools down
with haste
beneath the sheets
tongue inside thighs
licking the shaft
engaging his head
I arise
to engulf his upright hardness
his early morning want
such a gorgeous feeling
sliding further down
hands reaching now behind me
to guide without a sound
silently I moan
juice flowing from within
my cunt wetter with every moment
it needs licking once again

climbing further up
across his long flat chest
my pussy cream now sits
around my lovers breast
I lower ever so slightly
toward his soft wet tongue
up then down I lift
now back down with my bum
resting on his neck
as he works now on my lips
licking deep within
divining my warm wet slit
rubbing anxiously on my clit now
my fingers feel his tongue
his fingers now searching for lava
sliding open my wax filled bum

with knees shaking in a rift
my lovers arms outstretched
his hands teaching my breasts
to push in then to lift
fuck that feels so good
I whisper to myself
only to move back lower
across his torso shelf
to slide his love back in
to push it through my juice
Take it Sasha
he whispered
take me in your pink
take my long hard cock
take it in your hole
with that I arched even higher
my breasts alight in his touch
my pussy simply ached
his length was just too much
ramming into the sweet spot
feeling him explode
my mind racing through the traffic
my love hole about to implode
then shooting forth it came
that sensational hot release
out into the open
gushing at its peak
I rammed him in once more
muscles clasping at his head
draining every inch of his love
whilst squirting on our bed
as my fingers returned to the swelling
to where it all began
the heat now too intense
hey lover boy
turn on the fan