Short isn’t usually a phrase synonymous with porn, but I’d have to say the short answer is yes. The long answer is somewhat more complicated.
I was sitting having a coffee earlier in the week with Jodie, a middle aged Mom who is the eldest sister of one of my closest girlfriends. I walk with her in Central Park after yoga on Thursdays. She was asking me what I was writing. I told her I was working on a story about porn for my new Medium digest blog. “I’m a porn star”, she pronounced, before laughing out loud.
“I still like being fucked doggystyle by Danny on Saturday nights after all the kids are asleep. I then go down on him, and let him shoot all over my face before finishing him off with a blowjob”, she exclaimed.
“Okay so then I retreat to the front porch for a cigarette and a gin, while he sleeps off a six pack and a week of shift work. I guess not many big boobed blonde female porn star’s finish there 5 minute 10 second porn movies that way do they?” Jodie questions, reflecting on her real life porn story.
And Jodie’s probably correct in what she says. The Brandi Love’s of the porn world usually finish off their porn movies (having been facialized by their middle aged steroid driven male co star), with a swallow of his wad of cum, a smile and a cheesy line like “Man you taste good”.
Front porch reflections after sex aren’t really par for the porn course in 2020.
“So what is par for the porn course in 2020?” I pondered.
I thought to answer this question I’d dig a little deeper with my middle aged friend Jodie.
“So what have you been jilling off to lately Jodie?” I enquired.
“When Danny’s out on shift work that is?” I asked.
“Well I’m thinking it’s all fantasy anyway, isn’t Sasha”, she responded, somewhat hesitantly, with an embarrassed smile meeting her apparent blush. “But I’ve been watching those Stepmom movies. You know, the ones where the Stepmom shows her stepdaughter how to have sex with her boyfriend, and then decides to fuck him as well”, she says, before bursting out laughing.
“You know, the ones where the stepdaughter licks her from underneath while he is doing her from behind. I’ve always wondered what it would be like to have a threesome where someone was licking me while a guy was screwing me. Thats a real turn on for me”, Jodie announces, as if to release herself of a heavy burden.
“Cool,” I said. “That’s cool”, I said, thankful to her for opening up (or so to speak) on her porn story.
Then having chatted to several girlfiriends around my own age I realised that porn in 2020 was in fact becoming more female friendly. Having perused through porn platforms such as beeg.com I found that many of the big star were males, which was good to see. Clearly I’m not the only female jilling off on porn in 2020. And my porn research highlighted that many of the male porn stars online were slightly younger and a little thinner than they were a decade ago. They weren’t all James Deen’s but they weren’t all old hulks who looked like their only job could have been in male porn, if you pick up on my thread.
Yes there were all those stupid fetish type feeds that are a turn off to most females, like squirting, scat and an over abundance of female solo movies, but for the main part there were plenty of female friendly films to choose from. And that was on a mainstream porn feed. But in 2020 I’ve converted many of my girlfriends, and indeed some of my male colleagues across to a new era of female friendly porn channels, including “Frolicme.com”. I must confess to writing for Anna over at “Frolicme”. So yes i may appear a tad biased, but realistically “Frolicme”, and porn sites of the same genre, are definitely appealing to girls and women who like a bit more intimacy with their porn, and a little less of the rough sex tag we think of when analysing porn. The “Frolicme” films have a European feel and traverse across a plethora of genres and sexual tags. From male masturbation, couples sex, female only, gay, interracial and solo sex scenes, there is a fresh feel to these female friendly shorts, wherein the cinematography, costume design (or lack of it), and engaging scripts, all add to the appeal of this subscription based service. And btw it’s not just films. At “Frolicme” you can choose whether to feed your porn in audio or script form in addition to movie format. Whilst there’s plenty of porn pics for you “jill off” to on the site if you’re not up for a full feature.
In conclusion the long answer is porn in 2020 is more female friendly than it was in the late 90’s. Plenty of girls and women are enjoying jilling off to or simply watching stylish porn that isn’t all about men getting their rocks off. But yes we still have a bit of a way to go. Finding sound female friendly porn online that is easy on the eyes can be difficult at times. There is still an overwhelming abundance of unrealistic porn movies that are filmed far away from from the real life sexual situations we find ourselves in.
But as Jodie said, “Well I’m thinking it’s all fantasy anyway, isn’t Sasha”.